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MTL - Crazy Psychologist-v2 Chapter 799 Fang Ming's stubbornness
Humans typically go through five stages when grieving—denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance.
Fang Ming has come into contact with many patients, and the time and characteristics of each patient's immersion in a certain stage are not exactly the same. In fact, Chu Lin and her mother's attitudes towards the disease and treatment are not very special. It is the cycle of these five stages.
The cycle of grief is sometimes death. Patients know that they will die, but everyone knows that they will die before there is no disease, but the impact of two identical words on life itself is completely different.
The job of a doctor is to deal with thousands of patients, and it is impossible to only think about one person, but Fang Ming knows very well that Chu Lin will stay in his memory for a long time, just like the impact of the professor's illness on him. Time, this is definitely not a good thing for him.
After the eight-hour operation, Fang Ming half-lyed on the lounge chair in the office with his eyes closed. Just as he was about to take a nap, the director's voice sounded.
He barely opened his eyes, turned to face the director, and just about to stand up, the director said, "Sit down and rest." After speaking, he moved a chair and sat down opposite him.
"I want to talk to you about Chu Lin."
Fang Ming nodded. Although he had nothing to say about this matter, Zhang Wenwen made it very clear at the consultation meeting that he needed a specific time period for the operation. The prognosis of patients, of course, many doctors will not talk about their prognosis with patients subjectively. The requirements of each patient are different. Some people are in their eighties and want to live to a hundred. Discussing the prognosis of such patients and discussing the prognosis of girls in their early twenties are two completely different things.
But he doesn't want to say anything now, because he has said what should be said many times, and Zhang Wenwen has said it too. How could the director not be clear in his mind, so he can only say what to say.
"Let's talk." Fang Ming clarified his cooperative attitude.
The director's expression was somewhat depressed, showing helplessness and weakness. Fang Ming didn't like this kind of thing. He understood that these emotions were intended to be conveyed to others. The director used to be a highly skilled surgeon, but now he is a Experienced surgical director.
He has dozens of doctors, dozens of nurses and countless patients under him. He is naturally familiar with what kind of people to talk to.
"You must think that I deliberately don't allow you to operate."
"I don't think so. It has been discussed many times in the department, and most people are not against conservative treatment."
"The family members also hope this is the case, because if the operation is performed, it is only possible to prolong the survival time, and the results of drug treatment are not significantly different."
"You're right. Chu Lin's mother didn't think that her daughter needed surgery from the beginning to the end. They almost strengthened this idea to the point of denying the disease itself. This is something I have never seen before. "
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"I am also surprised at this point. Generally speaking, patients will deny the disease because it is difficult to accept, but they will always accept it. The operation confirmation sheet, treatment plan, and inspection report will make the patient gradually realize that the disease is unacceptable. The fact of denial leads them to acceptance, and even a doctor goes through this stage when he is sick."
"But these are useless to the mother and daughter. They can even change the doctor's judgment on the condition, but this is not a game, nor is it social exclusion among middle school students. The condition will not be excluded just because people's consciousness excludes it. Can walk away obediently, it is getting worse every day, just like today's situation, no one can say that Chu Lin's sudden suicide has nothing to do with the disease in her brain, let's get straight to the point, the director really thinks Is it all right?"
"Fang Ming, the work of a surgeon is a process of continuous improvement. Part of the reason why you want to operate on Chu Lin is to make further breakthroughs in your own surgical skills, right?"
Fang Ming was taken aback. He didn't expect the director to ask such a question. Although he has been supporting Chu Lin in the past few weeks, he has never had the opportunity to talk about his specific ideas. There is nothing wrong with removing the lower abdominal organs. Talking too much, after thinking about it, Fang Ming had to admire that the director was also a master of surgery before he became an experienced director.
Since the two were openly discussing the procedure during off-hours, it was entirely appropriate to communicate in a surgeon-to-surgeon fashion, avoiding personal emotions and concentrating solely on the procedure itself.
"Do you think the risk is worth it?"
This question was really sharp, as if a hunter's trap had been placed in front of Fang Ming. Because this clearing technique was thorough, what Fang Ming wanted to do would not affect the bad result.
To put it simply, for a prisoner who is already on death row, it doesn't seem to make any difference if he is sentenced to an extra ten or twenty years.
He should answer this question carefully, before he can clarify the director's intentions, but Fang Ming is too lazy to hide it, he has already decided to withdraw from Chu Lin's treatment.
"It's not about taking risks, it's about thinking I can do it."
"Bladder reconstruction surgery, you think that what hinders patients from choosing surgery is that they can't live like normal people after surgery, so you think that as long as you can keep Chu Lin as normal as possible after surgery, that's fine."
Undoubtedly, what the director said was true, Fang Ming responded silently, the director shook his head, and said in a gentle tone: "Do you think that if you explain these details clearly to the patients, they will happily accept the operation? "
Fang Ming didn't think there was anything wrong with the director's words~www.novelbuddy.com~ As a doctor, what he needs to pay more attention to is whether this can be realized during the operation.
"I have nothing against you explaining this possibility to the patient. But you have to think about it if the operation is not so successful."
"Are you worried about my skills?"
"You are at the best age of a surgeon, the age of constantly challenging difficulties and achieving success. I can understand your feelings very well, but I also want to remind you what you are facing. Chu Lin's mother has opposed us more than once when we talk about Surgery, you don’t need to consider the research funds they sponsor the hospital every year, but I can’t—and as far as I know, after the frightening incident in the morning, their attitude has not changed, and they even denied the possibility of surgical treatment again .”
Sure enough, the director has all eyes and hands. In the ward, what Chu Lin said can be clearly understood by others when she is not around. Fang Ming let out a "hum", which was barely audible, and then said: "I heard that Chu Lin is married, and her husband It's also family."
The director was taken aback, he didn't expect that he thought of Fang Ming so earnestly, but he went further and further on the road of stubbornness.
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