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MTL - I’m Against the World-Chapter 49 Mother's love needs selfless dedication 9 mother's love finale, I am for me...
Sun Yuchen became popular, Qin Yilan treated him the same as before, he didn't take the initiative to contact him when he had nothing to do, but Sun Yuchen was very close to her and liked to tell her anything in his heart.
The harmony between mother and son made Sun Shaoyuan very angry.
Because Qin Yilan forced one person to take turns to take children for a week in the Sun family, Sun Shaoyuan still contributed a lot in the growth process of Sun Yuchen, and the relationship between father and son is closer than that of Huang Qingyun. a lot of.
Sun Shaoyuan admits that he has put a lot of effort into raising Sun Yuchen, he feels that he has given no less than his ex-wife, but now Sun Yuchen and Qin Yilan are harmonious and affectionate, but he doesn't love him This made Sun Shaoyuan particularly unacceptable.
Why? Is it because he rejected Sun Yuchen's request to borrow money to open a restaurant that year?
Qin Yilan paid the money, but she made Sun Yuchen pay an IOU, and in the end the restaurant lost money. If Qin Yilan did nothing, Sun Yuchen would not lose such a sum of money. It is said that Sun Yuchen finally returned the money to Qin Yilan.
In this way, Qin Yilan's treatment of Sun Yuchen is not much better than his own treatment of Sun Yuchen, but Sun Yuchen is close to Qin Yilan and avoids him.
Sun Yuchen's behavior made Sun Shaoyuan feel particularly embarrassed.
Sun Shaoyuan, who hadn't seen each other for more than ten years, suddenly took the initiative to find Qin Yilan: "You say hello to that bastard, work is work, scandals are scandals, he must not seek entertainment when he gets married People in the circle, if he wants to get married, let him come back, and I will arrange a blind date for him."
Speak with confidence and for granted.
"If you have any arrangements for his marriage, then you can tell him directly and don't ask for my opinion." Qin Yilan was almost amused by him: "I never liked to interfere with him. thing."
"If that **** would listen to me, would I still use it to find you?"
Sun Shaoyuan complained angrily: "From childhood to adulthood, how did I treat him worse than you treated him? He asked for money once and I didn't give it, and he hated me. "
"The kindness to him in the past is no longer counted."
The blind date I contacted him all had excellent academic qualifications and looks, but the results were good, and he couldn't ask him back after making more than a dozen calls, is there such a son as him?"
"You think his son is inappropriate, so why do you communicate with him and run in front of me to pat the table?" Qin Yilan asked Sun Shaoyuan inexplicably: "You know, I have never Take care of his business."
"I'm surprised, you don't care about him, but he is close to you. I think about him, but he has to avoid me." Sun Shaoyuan really didn't understand : "What on earth did he think?"
For Sun Yuchen to say, he must feel that Sun Shaoyuan is in the name of love and is actually controlling. It seems to Qin Yilan that the reason is too simple, because the "love" given by Sun Shaoyuan is not what Sun Yuchen really needs.
Parents are always used to taking care of their children according to their own ideas. These cares are love in the eyes of parents, but if these cares are not what children really need, then they will most likely not feel much love, only The next one is "annoying".
"I don't know what he thinks. But I really think you control too much. He has a good relationship with me because I don't care about him." Qin Yilan put on a fake smile at Sun Shaoyuan: "Do you believe it?"
Sun Shaoyuan left with a question mark on his face, Qin Yilan didn't understand, what are these parents who are forcing their children to live according to their own ideas?
Parents are reluctant to bear hardships for their children, and it is right to show them a way. But if the child doesn't want to follow the path indicated by the parents, but insists on the path he chooses, then the parent really doesn't need to force it.
The road is their own choice, and whether this road is wind, rain or rainbow, it is their own scenery and the result they should bear.
Easier said than done.
Knowing that the child is taking a fork in the road, apart from fake mothers like myself, how many parents can watch and ignore it?
Sun Yuchen has always been reluctant to get married, and Sun Shaoyuan broke out several quarrels with him over this matter.
Qin Yilan really couldn't understand Sun Shaoyuan.
Sun Yuchen is a mature adult. He knows what he needs and whether or not to marry is his personal freedom. Besides, with his economic ability, he can provide himself with a high-quality old age life. So there is no such thing as raising children to prevent old age.
Then why did Sun Shaoyuan force him to get married? Do you think that after raising this son for a while, in the end, it will be a big loss for him to inherit the lineage for him? Or are you worried that when your son grows old, it will be too lonely without children and grandchildren around his knees?
Qin Yilan lived steadily until she was seventy-five years old. In the past few decades, Sun Yuchen has always been very filial to her. No matter what Qin Yilan wants to do, she will never disobey her. It can be said that Only mother's life is from.
Huang Qingyun's relatives and friends all know how rebellious Sun Yuchen was when he was young, and how tense his relationship with Sun Shaoyuan is now. The relatives and friends couldn't help but ask Qin Yilan's secret of mastering a son.
"There are also secrets. To sum up, don't take your children too seriously, and don't take yourself too seriously."
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"If you take yourself too seriously, you will forget that children are also independent individuals, trying to hold them in the palm of your hand and control their lives. Now, parents and children only have face."
This is Qin Yilan's first-hand experience as a mother for half her life.
Just after her seventy-fifth birthday, Qin Yilan's body was not quite right.
The nanny she hired for herself has a chef's license. People in their tens of years are not taboo. They can eat whatever they want to eat all day long. Sun Yuchen can't persuade her. She hired a professional home care worker.
As soon as her birthday was over, she began to feel sleepy, not to mention reading and watching TV. She could fall asleep while chatting with the nanny, and her breathing was very shallow when she fell asleep.
Seeing that this was not a good sign, the nurse called Sun Yuchen and sent her to the hospital, private hospital, independent ward, with flowers brought by Sun Yuchen on the bedside, Qin Yilan was there The faint floral fragrance Li An quietly stopped breathing.
As soon as she closed her eyes, "Shenlong" came to pick her up.
Qin Yilan first saw that the boss was exactly the same as she was before she entered the small world, and she immediately showed a relieved smile. , didn't the boss cultivate when she entered the small world?
The first time Qin Yilan saw the "Shenlong", this guy had a head left. After she wore it on Da Hei and completed the task assigned by him, his condition was much better, and his shoulders grown out.
There is no reason for this guy to be exactly the same as before she entered the small world, Qin Yilan's smile suddenly collapsed: "Mr. Shenlong, did you go back to another small world?"
"That's right, I met a puppet." Shenlong was very frustrated: "You are right, no matter who it is, this **** should not give him a second chance."
Qin Yilan held her forehead, according to this guy's temperament, it would be difficult for him to grow a body.
"Since this world is done, let's go to the next world."
When I close my eyes and open my eyes, there is a light like a bean in front of me.
"Shenlong" explained the task to Qin Yilan: "A courtier should be loyal to the country, not to others, and loyalty must be valuable and meaningful, and it is not loyalty to die without a brain. Your mission this time is to keep This man's life, and then do what he's supposed to do."
After "Shenlong" explained, leaving the original owner's memory to Qin Yilan, it disappeared.
Qin Yilan hugged Yuan Shouyi in this darkness, calmly went through the original owner's memory, and when he saw it, he almost knelt down to the original owner.
The original owner is a real boss!
Shiren, and then directly rejected the family's proposal to let him go to the Ministry of Personnel, and went to work in the Ministry of Industry.
At that time, it was rainy, and the Yellow River and even the south of the Yangtze River had frequent floods. The court controlled the water year after year, and the manpower and material resources were not expended, but there was not much effect. Xie Zhiyong was determined to control the water. Master, he worked hard to control the water and made great contributions many times.
At that time, the Yellow River was diverted, and the people were displaced.
Xie Zhiyong was appointed in danger, and served as the Minister of Industry and led the post of "General River Guarding Envoy". He was promoted to the second rank, awarded the emperor's sword, levied 150,000 people, and 30,000 soldiers. It lasted five months. Dredging, dredging and plugging were carried out simultaneously, more than 300 li of new river channels were dug, and more than 200 embankments were built. Finally, the Yellow River, which had been causing endless harm since the beginning of this dynasty, was managed and obeyed.
Xie Zhiyong was awarded the Grand Fellowship of Wenhua Palace for this merit and became one of the three ministers in the cabinet. Not long after he joined the cabinet, the old emperor died and the prince ascended the throne.
The prince and the master, let him write the posthumous edict.
He ordered him to rewrite the edict.
His death failed to stop King Qin from ascending.
Shoufu had just been executed, and he killed himself again. The only remaining minister in the cabinet and the two-year-old little prince were not even able to turn over the waves, and the King of Qin sat directly in the world.
Posthumous name.
Because of this posthumous title, the dogmatic old master of later generations always loves to use his deeds of loyalty to the king to publicize.
What Xie Zhiyong did not expect was that he came back to life after his death and returned to the night when King Qin forced the palace.