"So, I started living like that. If I don’t like something, I make sure that I let them know that I don’t like it. I will not force myself to like what I hate, or be forced to hate what I love. If I love someone, as long as he is attainable, then I go for him.

If I find a dress I like, regardless of the price, I just swipe my card and take it. Its simple like this," she couldn’t help but calmly speak as she looked at Penny, hoping that the woman was going to understand what she was talking about.

Looking at Penny’s expression, she could tell that the message was sinking in. whether that would make Penny happy or not, it wasn’t her fault. After all, Penny was the one who was curious and wanted to know more about her thoughts. And these were her sincere thoughts.

"So, when we talk about whether I am afraid of losing it all because I adhere to the concept of speaking it out, then I can say to you that I am not afraid. In life, you need to understand a simple principle. What is yours can never be taken away. If it gets taken away, then it wasn’t never meant to be yours in the first place.

For example, lets talk about men. I am dating my boyfriend right now; we live continents apart and rarely see each other. The probability of him seeing others is very high. After all, his is older, and has needs. He is not a vegetarian and what happens when he wants sex but I am not here? Will he find someone else or suppress the urge and wait until we meet?" she couldn’t help but throw a question, using her own relationship as an example.

Penny was conflicted as she listened to that. Men weren’t herbivores and they barely and rarely fast or suppress their urges. It was normal for them to have some women out there to have those desires released. What was she supposed to say to her?

However, Diamond responded before she could.

"I honestly don’t give a damn about that," she chuckled slyly as she threw a wink at Penny. "Whether we don’t see each other for a year or a week. If he dares vents his desires on another woman, regardless of reason. If I know about it, then he is no longer qualified to be with me."

"What?" Penny exclaimed shockingly, letting out her voice after a very long time.

What was she hearing?

Diamond chuckled upon seeing her reaction and responded casually, "It must be shocking, right? After all, as women, we were usually told that men are like that. It’s normal for them to have some women outside and we should turn a blind eye. Isn’t it?"

Penny unconsciously nodded. It was as if she was looking at her mother as Diamond said that.

As long as they return to them at the end of the day, and fulfil their duties, as husbands or fathers, there should be no reason for them, as women to cause a fuss. Wasn’t that how she was living as well?

She didn’t even dare to look deep into Russ’s affairs, lest she ends up finding that he was busy having an affair outside due the pitiful numbers of moments of intimacy in their marriage.

However, Diamond’s words were truly inspiring, and too bold that she didn’t even dare try to get too inspired by it. She was unlike Diamond, who was rich and could do whatever she wants.

It was also at this moment that she accepted, though reluctantly, that she was weak and unlike the woman that Diamond was speaking of; a woman of power.

She didn’t have such guts.

"Haha, so what if they say something like that? My happiness comes first. And if a man can’t keep it in his zippers and feel like seeing the world, then let him pack his bags and go be with the women he thinks are suited for him.

However, I try my best to avoid such situations from happening. Which is why before we start dating, and even in the process, I make sure that we both speak out, communicate and share what is in our hearts.

If we enter into a relationship without understanding what we expect from each other, then it will never be peaceful in the future. What if the other party assumes that I wanted this, or he is thinking that he could do this?

To stop such from happening, we talk, we negotiate and come to an agreement. If I can accept it, or he can accept it, then we proceed. But if not, then we choose to compromise but not all the time. And if not, then don’t even bother to start at all.

In my case, for example, I honestly don’t care if my man has a lot of girlfriends, in mean, the female friends, those without any kind of intimacy between them. After all, I have a lot of male friends myself. So, I can’t stop him from befriending those he is interested in. But he is not allowed to hook with someone else behind my back. Even with me knowing, that is not allowed. If my man sleeps or become intimate with another, he becomes dirty. I no longer want him."

Of course, if she does the same, its different. It might sound contradictory, but that’s the reason why before they even think of dating, she makes it clear to the men she is interested in and those who are interested in her.

She makes them know in advance that is polyandrous, and no matter how much they love her, she will always find someone else. Her dream was to have four or five men. That will never stop. She was pretty determined to achieve that goal and no one was going to stop her.

After all, she was living her life. What right do strangers or other people have to dictate how she lives her life?

She is a freaking Grandmaster for crying out loud.

Even the state will fully support her.

That’s how powerful she has become thanks to the system in this past year, almost turning two now.