After Rebirth, the Celebrity Daughter is the Medical Expert!-Chapter 433 - 329: Why Do People Like to Share Their Daily Lives?

Chapter 433: Chapter 329: Why Do People Like to Share Their Daily Lives?

But she ultimately trusts Ning Youguang’s professional abilities.

Therefore, after a pause, she sincerely said to Ning Youguang, "Mr. Ning, I’m sorry, I still don’t quite understand what you’ve said. However, I believe in your professional abilities, and I hope you can help my cousin more and take extra care of her."

She paused slightly, "Regarding the issues with her native family, if you need my aunt and uncle’s cooperation, just let me know, and I’ll work on persuading them."

"Alright." Ning Youguang smiled gently, "I don’t need you to stay around right now. Why don’t you give Weiwei a call to see where she is, and let her accompany you for a stroll around our campus? Our school has a ginkgo grove that’s beautiful at the moment."

"Okay." Miss Wang smiled, with gratitude in her eyes, "I’ll leave this to you then, the time is about right, so we’ll come over."

...

When Ning Youguang returned to the office again, he found Xiao Tian scrolling on her phone.

He chuckled softly, "How is it? Do you feel a bit better?"

"Much better." Xiao Tian continued to scroll her phone for a while before looking up, "I feel more comfortable now that my cousin is gone. Her talking irritates me."

Ning Youguang chuckled, "Is the pressure quite high recently?"

Xiao Tian lowered her head again, remained silent for a long time, then asked Ning Youguang, "Have you seen the news about me online?"

"I have." Ning Youguang replied.

"I knew it." Xiao Tian laughed slightly, "You surely find me ridiculous, don’t you?"

Ning Youguang shook his head slowly, "There’s nothing ridiculous."

Xiao Tian was slightly stunned, "Are you sure?"

"I’m very sure." Ning Youguang’s clear eyes seemed to penetrate Xiao Tian’s black sunglasses and fell on her eyes. 𝕗𝗿𝕖𝐞𝐰𝗲𝕓𝐧𝕠𝕧𝗲𝐥.𝚌𝐨𝚖

This clear gaze made her feel uneasy, causing her to turn her head and try to dodge.

Ning Youguang’s attitude did not change due to her dodging and evasion, he continued to look at her calmly.

After dodging for a while, Xiao Tian turned back, her gaze falling on Ning Youguang’s face again.

She could feel that the professor in front of her, who was better looking than a movie star and appeared particularly young, was not lying.

"Why?" she asked puzzled, "Just because you’re a psychologist?"

Ning Youguang said, "You can interpret it that way."

"So, you also think I’m sick, right?" Xiao Tian felt a bit discomfort rising within her.

Ning Youguang drank some water calmly, "Why would you think I find you not ridiculous because I think you’re sick?"

"Isn’t it?" The rising discomfort caused Xiao Tian to bristle.

"That’s your point of view, not mine." Ning Youguang said warmly, "And such self-assumed views are making you uncomfortable."

Xiao Tian’s facial expression paused.

Ning Youguang laughed, "You can ask me why I don’t find you ridiculous."

Xiao Tian remained silent.

Ning Youguang said, "Many times, we habitually like to interpret others’ words through our own ideas, often wrongly, and in this process, many people like to insist their interpretation is correct. As a result, many of us feel misunderstood in daily life and unable to understand others. Solving this misunderstanding conflict is actually quite simple. Whenever we feel uncomfortable, we can calmly ask the other person—’What do you really mean by this sentence?’, this way we can effectively prevent unpleasant interactions due to mutual misunderstanding."

After listening carefully, Xiao Tian asked, "Why aren’t you like them, thinking I’m ridiculous?"

Ning Youguang said, "You definitely have reasons that you think are right for doing such things; no one would do something they think is wrong."

Xiao Tian said, "Right, I’m not wrong. Why do they all say I’m wrong and laugh at me? So many people wear fake designer brands, why can’t I? So many influencers and celebrities create personas, what’s wrong with me creating one? Why are they so harsh on me? I don’t believe they live without lying..."

Ning Youguang patiently listened to Xiao Tian vent her angry feelings.

After she finished speaking, he gently asked, "Feeling a bit better?"

Xiao Tian pressed her lips together and nodded.

Ning Youguang said, "Feeling better, then let’s continue the topic we discussed halfway earlier."

"What topic?" Xiao Tian asked puzzled.

"The one where we hope to live better."

"Didn’t we finish discussing it?"

"We haven’t." Ning Youguang shook his head, "What we discussed earlier were all external conditions. To live well, besides external conditions, internal conditions also need to be fulfilled. Do you know what these internal conditions are?"

"Being loved?" Xiao Tian replied.

"Right." Ning Youguang said, "Internally, we all need love, respect, care, recognition, companionship, etc. Among these needs, some can be allowed not to be fulfilled. Having them means better living, while some must be fulfilled, having them means being able to continue living."

Xiao Tian said, "If you don’t have these, then you need money."

Ning Youguang smiled, "Just like Xi Bao said in Yishu’s book, ’If you don’t give me a lot of love, then give me a lot of money.’"

Xiao Tian said, "Isn’t that the case? Don’t most girls think this way now?"

"Do you think Xi Bao is truly happy? Can money resolve all problems and make us live happily?"

Xiao Tian nodded and then shook her head.

Ning Youguang said, "From Xi Bao’s case, we can see that when we are materially deficient, we think, if one day we become rich, all problems will be solved, and besides this, we need nothing else. But in reality, when people really have money, they find many problems remain unsolved. Happiness isn’t just money creating happiness, if that’s the case, then all wealthy people in this world should be happy, right? But is that the reality?"

Xiao Tian shook her head, "No."

Ning Youguang smiled softly.

"Let’s talk about another topic."

"What topic?"

"Let’s discuss why so many people like sharing their lives online nowadays."

Xiao Tian said, "Do we really need to discuss this? Isn’t it how everyone is nowadays?"

Ning Youguang said, "Yes, ever since social media emerged, everyone has developed a tacit agreement, enjoying showing the bright side of their lives while showing little or none of their unhappy content. Therefore, every time we scroll through Weibo, Xiaohongshu, we see others’ beauty. But what is the truth of life? People keep displaying their beautiful lives online, what is the shallow reason for this?" 1314